Songs to Sing to Your Baby
My mother would tell you that I have always been bad at sleeping, and our first child doesn’t seem to be a natural either. It can be stressful and draining trying to help a fussy baby sleep but I found singing love songs to her really helped my mental health, transforming these times into periods of meditation on my love for her. Instead of just feeling exhausted or desperate, I felt connected and grateful song after song… after song!
Finding the right songs to get this effect was a challenge, though. It was important to have many songs to choose from since just singing the same one over and over my mind would wander. I ended up often adapting the lyrics, but when you’re sleep deprived and the baby is crying directly in your ear that is tough! It was also helpful to realize that, since you’re always singing a capella anyway, you can slow the tempo of a song way down to make it a lullaby (e.g., “Eight Days a Week” by The Beatles). This song list grew over the course of months. It is my pleasure to share it with you so that you can jump right in to enjoying the beautiful experience of singing your love to your new little one.
Under My Skin
Frank Sinatra
I've got you under my skin
I've got you deep in the heart of me
So deep in my heart that you're really a part of me
I've got you under my skin
I tried so not to give in
I said to myself, 'this affair never will go so well'
But why should I try to resist when, baby, I know so well
I've got you under my skin?
I'd sacrifice anything, come what might
For the sake of having you near
In spite of a warning voice that came in the night
And repeat, repeat in my ear
"Don't you know little fool, you never can win?
Use your mentality, wake up to reality"
But each time that I do, just the thought of you
Makes me stop before I begin
'Cause I've got you under my skin
Eight Days A Week
Songwriters: John Lennon / Paul McCartney
Oh, I need your love, babe
Guess you know it's true
Know you need my love, babe
Just like I need you
Hug me, love me, snug me, love me
I ain't got nothing but love, babe
Eight days a week
Love you every day, girl
Always on my mind
One thing I can say, girl
Love you all the time
Eight days a week
I loooooove you
Eight days a week
Is not enough to show I care
In My Life
Songwriters: John Lennon / Paul McCartney
There are places I'll remember
All my life, though some have changed
Some forever, some for better
Some have gone, and some remain
All these places had their moments
With loved ones and friends, I still can recall
Some are gone, and some are living
In my life, I've loved them all
But of all these friends and loved ones
There is no one compares with you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
Though I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them
In my life, I love you more
In my life, I love you more
No One
(acoustic)
Alicia Keys
I just want you close
Where you can stay forever
You can be sure
That it will only get better
You and me together
Through the days and nights
Don’t worry 'cause
Everything's gonna be alright
People keep talking, they can say what they like
All I know is everything's gonna be alright
And no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I'm feeling
No one, no one
Can get in the way of what I feel for you
When the rain is pouring down
And your heart is hurting
I will always be around
This I know for certain
You and me together
Through the days and nights
Don’t worry 'cause
Everything's gonna be alright
People keep talking, they can say what they like
But all I know is everything's gonna be alright
And no one, no one
Can get in the way of what I'm feeling
No one, no one
Can get in the way of what I feel for you
I know some people search the world
To find something like what we have
And I tried to defy, tried to deny something so real
But 'til the end of time, I'm telling you there ain't no one
No one, no one
Can get in the way of what I'm feeling
No one, no one
Can get in the way, can get in the way of what I feel for you
Can’t Take My Eyes Off You
Lauryn Hill
You're just too good to be true
I can't take my eyes off you
You are like heaven to touch
I love to hold you so much
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God you’re alive
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off you
Pardon the way that I stare
There's nothing else that compares
The sight of you leaves me weak
There are no words left to speak
One day you’ll feel like I feel
But we both know that is real
You're just too good to be true
I can't take my eyes off you
Oh pretty baby
Don't let me down I pray
Oh pretty baby
Now that I've found you stay
And let me love you, oh baby
Let me love you
I love you baby
And if it’s quite alright
I need you baby
No more lonely nights
I love you baby
Trust in me when I say
You're just too good to be true
I can't take my eyes off you
You are like heaven to touch
I love to hold you so much
At long last love has arrived
And I thank God you’re alive
You're just too good to be true
Can't take my eyes off you
Fly Me To The Moon
Frank Sinatra
Fly me to the moon
Let me play among the stars
And let me see what spring is like
On Jupiter and Mars
In other words, hold my hand
In other words, baby, kiss me
You fill my heart with love
And let me sing forevermore
You are all I long for
All I worship and adore
In other words, just be you
In other words, I love you
My Girl
The Temptations
I've got sunshine on a cloudy day
When it's cold outside I've got the month of May
I guess you'd say
What can make me feel this way?
My girl, my girl, my girl
Talkin' 'bout my girl (my girl)
I've got so much honey the bees envy me
I've got a sweeter song than the birds in the trees
Well I guess you'd say
What can make me feel this way?
My girl, my girl, my girl
Talkin' 'bout my girl (my girl)
I don't need no money, fortune, or fame
I've got all the riches baby that one can claim
I guess you'd say
What can make me feel this way?
My girl, my girl, my girl
Talkin' 'bout my girl (my girl)
To Zion (or replace Zion with your baby’s name)
By Lauryn Hill
Now the joy of my world is in Zion
Now the joy of my world is in Zion
How beautiful there’s nothing more
Than to wait at Zion’s door
I've never been in love like this before
Now I’ll try to keep you from
The perils that will surely come
See life for you my love has just begun
Now the joy of my world is in Zion
Now the joy of my world is in Zion
And I thank you for choosing me
To come through unto life to be
A beautiful reflection of your grace
For I know that a gift so great
Is only one love could create
And I'm reminded every time I see your face
That the joy of my world is in Zion
Now the joy of my world is in Zion
Beloved One
Ben Harper
Your eyes shine through me
You are so divine to me
Your heart has a home in mine
We won't have to say a word
With a touch all shall be heard
When I search my heart it's you I find
My beloved one, my beloved one, my beloved one
You were meant for me
I believe you were sent to me
from a dream straight into my arms
Hold your body close to me
You mean the most to me
We will keep each other safe from harm
My beloved one, my beloved one, my beloved one
Isn’t She Lovely
Stevie Wonder
Isn't she lovely?
Isn't she wonderful?
Isn't she precious?
Less than one minute old
I never thought through love we'd be
Making one as lovely as she
But isn't she lovely made from love?
Isn't she pretty?
Truly the whole world’s best
If there’s a heaven
Then we have been Heaven blessed
I can't believe what love has done
Through us, we’ve given life to one
But isn't she lovely made from love?
Isn't she lovely?
Life and love are the same
Life is Aisha
The meaning of her name
Lonnie, it could have not been done
Without you, we conceived the one
That's so very lovely, made from love
What A Wonderful World
(Or, as it’s known in our house, “Dad’s Song”)
By Louis Armstrong
I see trees of green, red roses too
I see them bloom, for me and you
And I think to myself
What a wonderful world
I see skies of blue and clouds of white
The bright blessed days, the dark sacred nights
And I think to myself
What a wonderful world
The colors of the rainbow
So pretty in the sky
Are also on the faces
Of people going by
I see friends shaking hands, saying how do you do
They're really saying, I love you
I hear babies cry, I watch them grow
They'll learn much more
Than I'll ever know
And I think to myself
What a wonderful world
Yes, I think to myself
What a wonderful world